It’s Not All Relative

by | Feb 16, 2022 | Life of Jesus | 0 comments

Are you familiar with the phrase “It’s all relative”? No, it doesn’t have anything to do with your distant cousins. The phrase is used to express the concept that different people can perceive the same exact thing in totally different ways, depending on what they compare it to.

For example, I visited Southern California a few weeks ago. On one of the days, the temperature was in the 50s. The local residents were remarking on how cold it was, even wearing coats to go outside. Today, near my home in Philadelphia, the temperature was in the 50s. The local residents were outside with short-sleeve shirts, enjoying the beautiful weather.

Same exact weather, but some people think it’s cold and some people think it’s beautiful. Who’s right? Well, they’re all right. In California, the temperature is cold compared to what the residents there are accustomed to. In Philadelphia, the temperature is mild compared to what we are accustomed to (in February). So, there’s no single right answer—it’s all relative.

Different perceptions of the weather are harmless. However, as servants of God, having different perceptions of what is right and wrong is not a good thing. When it comes to the Word of God, it’s NOT all relative—His Word is absolute!

Imagine if this were not the case. Suppose a man is cheating on his wife. His wife finds out about the affair and (understandably) freaks out. The man responds, “Hey, it’s not like I killed someone.” Is this a valid defense? This is relativity at work—what I did is not so bad because I could have done this other thing, which would have been much worse.

Clearly, sin doesn’t become any less wrong just because we can think of something worse. Yet, the enemy wants us to think it’s all relative—he uses relativity as a tool to lull people into transgression. We’ve all heard the whispers that try to sway us: “Everybody does it,” “It’s legal,” “You have a good reason,” etc. When you hear these whispers, try asking yourself these types of questions:

  • Is a sin that many people engage in less wrong than one that just a few people do?
  • Is a sin that the government says is OK less wrong than one that hasn’t been approved by Congress yet?
  • Is a sin that I can justify to myself less wrong than one that I can’t think of a good justification for?

The answer to all of these questions is “NO!” The Word of God doesn’t change based on popular opinion. 

And, even if we think that some sins can be rated “not so bad,” it should be obvious that for almost any behavior, some type of worse behavior can be found to compare it to. So, if we go through life thinking it’s all relative, then we’ll find ourselves on a slippery slope that increases our risk of wandering into sinful behavior. Instead of the slippery slope, choose the firm foundation of the Word of God—His definitions of right and wrong are forever unchanging!

Jesus knew that the tendency of people would be to rank the commandments of God into what they perceived as the greater ones and the lesser ones and would then feel free to ignore what they considered the unimportant ones. So, he addressed this in the Sermon on the Mount:

“Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them, the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:19)

This article has undergone ministry review and approval.

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  • Brother Jerry Valenti

    Brother Jerry lives in the suburbs of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania with wife Sister Pat and daughter Maria.

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